Females utter these with wide-eyed innocence, but beware. These questions are designed to surprise and disarm, making you vulnerable. Answer incorrectly and you’ll find yourself at the receiving end of an unjust judgment. Needless to say, she will lose all interest in you.
What can you do to prevent this? Simple, be smooth. Be slippery as an eel. Dodge the pitfalls and don’t take the bait. Here are some ways to do this…
Here's the
first thing you should be aware of...
When a girl asks why you don’t have a girlfriend, don’t act arrogant or cocky.
Don’t tell her that you're a "devotee of Derek Rake's school of seduction", or that you play the field. She’s sneakily smoking out your playboy tendencies, and looking for reasons not to date you. She also wants to know if you’re likely to be a jerk boyfriend with commitment phobia.
The next time a girl asks you this question “how come you’re not in a relationship?”, answer with...
“I’m not in a
rush to commit. But I will in a jiffy when I find the right girl.”
This statement will tell of your willingness to commit, and will hint at the fact that you’re looking for a girlfriend, not a fling.
A word of
caution:
Most guys, however, fall for this trick like a ton of bricks. They end up saying the wrong things, like “I like playing the field”, “Oh, I’m not into long term commitments” and “No way, I’m far from ready to settle down”.
Uh-oh.
You see, saying these things to her is like dousing a burning furnace with ice. You gotta understand why she's administering the shit-test on you. She asked this because she wants you, thinks you’re boyfriend material, and is now fishing for info about your past.
Now, if you got through that first trap successfully, it’s time to change the topic. And, I mean instantly. Letting her think of a follow up question will only complicate things.
If you’re not careful, she will start asking about your former relationships, how they ended, how long they lasted and what type of girls you went for.
"...and
what about Group Sex?"
One other question that seems to crop up is the idea of a threesome. You probably fantasize about it, but admitting it to a girl will not do you good. Some girls are into it, for sure, but most are not. She will think of you as a dog who wants several girlfriends just to get a threesome.
Nice one!
And finally, if you do not change the topic soon, she will start asking about your opinion on cheating.
Be very careful with this. Most girls seem like they’re into casual affairs but they’re really just trying to look into the psyche of guys they meet.
The vilest questions are the “have you ever” types, i.e. have you ever cheated, have you ever made out with another girl while your girlfriend was away … etc.
Don't
fall
for this trap!
Talking about your sexual fantasies and conquests might lower your guard and make you more complacent with the girl you’re talking to. Don’t fall for it.
Cheating is a cardinal sin for most girls, and not even your boasting about your sexual prowess will prevent her from asking follow up questions about your fidelity to a current girlfriend.
What you can do is show that you take a relationship seriously. Tell her you value a girlfriend’s feelings and you stick with her until you’re sure that the relationship will not work.
Be
careful...
...don’t expound with an “ex tale”. Instead, dish out an analogy that will steer her away from the “ex” issues. Something that’s related to “trust in a corporate sense” will do.
Tell her that a man who can’t be loyal to a girlfriend inadvertently shows his lack of faithfulness in the professional sense. Tell her trustworthiness is all encompassing and will affect all aspects of a man’s life.
Statements like this will increase your value in her eyes. At the very least, these will stop her from asking more loaded questions. But be ready to get more shit-tests and baiting questions from time to time... and it's important to be prepared to handle those when the time comes.
OK, here's the deal...
I cannot coach you in person and I will not be there with you when your woman suddenly decides to administer a shit-test on you. But what I know is this...
Take it from me and learn from my techniques for best results because I had been studying the female species over the last six years and have become familiar with the mechanism that triggers attraction for women.
Deadly Seduction: Shit Test
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