Deadly Seduction: Rapport

So what happens after you 'deliver' the canned opener?

If you use a canned opener in approaching women, you should be prepared to encounter one or more of the three famous hindrances:

1. Your opening approach may not work and you could just see your chances with the woman you are attracted to slip through your fingers. You may leave the place with a pin prick on your ego.
2. Your approaching line may click 100 percent and the lady will gush you will have a hard time trying to veer the conversation towards new and interesting channels.
3. If your opening line works, you may have an attack of fear and anxiety, and this could leave you with a mental block you wouldn’t know what words would come out of your mouth in the next minutes.

At one time or another, I bet you have experience one or more of these barriers in your life.

It won’t surprise me if you would want me to teach you the magic lines that work effectively to keep the woman glued to you after you use your approach line.

There are a thousand and one ways possible topics to talk about as soon as your opening line ends.

Many of these ideas and word-for-word conversation examples are found in Chapter 7 of DeadlySeduction™ (click here for more information) I have formulated to meet your needs.

The ever-important 'bridge' between the approach and building deep rapport

However, I will not tell you exactly what to say to a woman after you deliver your opening line here. No.

Instead…

What I have in store for you is something finer yet packed with power that would take you past the opener.

Living without it may veer your social life with women towards a gloomy existence. In fact, you may be surprised to know how you existed this long without it!

But here’s something I want to share with you concerning my friend…

I once had a buddy who can approach a woman without having any hitches at all, but his greatest problem is after he delivers his opening line, a long uncomfortable silence would follow and he is left at a loss for words.

He seriously asked me how I was able to develop a technique for a stream of subjects that would keep the women interested. “Derek, did you have to borrow lines from famous comedians? Or is your gift of gab inborn? What is it? Tell me!"

He did not expect my answer…and neither would you!

Memorizing the routines of comedians was out of the question. I was way too busy for that. In fact, I was one of those kids in school who never gets to memorize his lines in the school play.

I was not also one of the fortunate individuals who were born with the gift of gab. Like you and the millions of struggling men in the world, I worked hard at getting women to like me.

I spent countless hours screening and choosing the words that came out of my mouth that I became self-conscious and tongue-tied.

However, I had a rude awakening one time when a woman slapped me in the face. Ouch.

It was one unforgettable moment where you came to realize something that you’ve always been conscious about.

It is the feeling that once I get comfortable around a girl and feel that she likes me, I guess I always thought I can open up and dump every little dreary detail about my life by narrating the silly things I did as a kid.

I came to realize that that aspect of my personality that I expose to a woman I felt comfortable with was the exact turns off a woman. It simply decreases my value before her eyes. 

Now here's the secret of building deep connection that nobody else has ever told you

Realization hit me...

That in order to keep a woman interested in talking with you past the opening lines, talk to them just like the way you would to a girl you have known for a long time.

So here is the secret…

First you have to find out about what subjects you talk about with your women friends, and use these topics to talk with your new women acquaintances.

Then, you can play a game of make believe where you feel that you have known a woman you just met for a long time, and she is madly attracted to you.

Try this technique and you will be powerful enough to keep a woman engaged to you as long as you want her.

Don’t forget that getting a woman to get attracted to you entails hard work if you do not possess the necessary skills or "prizability".

(For a quick revision on how to build lightning fast 'high value' and prizability, refer to the TwoPower Strategies section, page 36 of How To Seduce Out Of Your League).

However, a useful warning…

If you want to engage women and induce them to see you as a prize, you are not igniting the sparks of attraction in her.

Oh okay, if you haven’t set high preferences or standards, you may be able to attract a few women here and there, but if that is the case then you don’t need to memorize the techniques of attracting women after all.

But if you want hordes of attractive women fighting their way to get into your pants, you have to know what makes women tick and how to make them stick. Knowing a woman’s psychological secrets could point you to hit the right buttons to attract women.

I may not have an idea of the type of women you may be attracted to, nor do I know your preferences but this is what I know…

Take it from me and learn from my techniques for best results because I had been studying the female species over the last six years and have become familiar with the mechanism that triggers attraction for women.

 Deadly Seduction: Rapport