Now, I know this is easier said than done because society as we know it can discourage individuality. You and I have been trained to be parts of a team.
Standing out by being a square in a roomful of circles can invite ridicule… scared yet? So...here’s an incentive for you to stand out and create a more compelling personality… dating the best women around.
Here comes Mr X's "Truism of Life"...
Judgment is formed through appearances, and those that seem more interesting than a normal wall fixture will get attention.
How can women get attracted to you if they can’t see you because you blend with the background? Be unique, and be interesting. Being shy and timid won’t get you anywhere, so quit using your timid nature as an excuse for not dating the women you want to date.
The thing is this...
If a girl sees that you have the same personality, the same fashion sense, and the same flirting technique as every other guy she meets, she will get bored with you and look through you.
But... if she sees that you have something more to offer through your conversation and your over-all manner, she will get intrigued – captivated – and hooked!
I know it’s risky to be different from the rest of the pack, because it’s safer to blend in, you make fewer mistakes and you don’t have to put in more effort to be original.
But here's the deal... this also means you’re too lazy to do a personality overhaul. There are more men who hide behind the wall called conformity than we think.
Now if you've been an avid reader of Derek's The Rake Letter™ for some time, and a follower of the Zen Seduction philosophy then you are not one of those lazy buggers who expect women to fall on their laps without any work on their part.
Look - it’s a challenge to every aspiring ladies’ man to stand out, be a magnet of attention (and consequently, affection) by appearing more mysterious, unpredictable and larger than life.
But be forewarned!
Before you become as scandalous as you can be... listen to me. You must have a slippery back. If you’re going to welcome scandal, you must learn to take and even embrace criticism.
Attention will not always make you feel warm and fuzzy. On the contrary, it can make you feel like you’re battling defensively for your unique perspective on different levels.
Remember this.
Be unapologetic about the way you choose to court attention. When Derek used to train under me, I used to tell him...
"Derek, a lot of men will envy your audacity because they cannot conquer the fear themselves. In fact, I’ll go out on a limb and say that most guys who try to bring you down for wanting every woman’s attention are jealous that you can do it and they can’t."
"If you’re in this pinch right now and the rest of the world...your peers, colleagues... try to tell you that conforming is better, remember this… you can never please everyone."
Derek completely understood this point. Do you?
Being unique = being passionate
If you’re happy being unique, you have a passion that you pursued at a cost or your lifestyle has put you on the outside (i.e. you decided to start your own business and quit your former job), you’re unique.
Remember that going against the tide is never easy, but nothing worthwhile is. Think about it.
Now I want you to do this for me.
List some of the things you can do to burn more brightly than all the other men around you.
Once you've done that, attract attention by doing the following.
Adopt a style of dressing that gets people chatting about you. Adding a few accessories, or even wearing a hat will make your image memorable to the women you will meet. Moreover, you will be able to set yourself apart from other people.
If it’s not a fashion sense upgrade, it can be a personality quirk that you’re finally revealing to other people besides your friends and family. Some guys are quite funny, yet they hesitate showing people this personality quirk because they’re scared shit of getting ridiculed.
Have fun with the way you express yourself with people, and relax… not everyone will think you’re funny but those who will can be your very own set of fans in the future.
Embrace yourself fully!
Look - do you notice how celebrities seem to always understand the concept of standing out? They embrace the status of someone who stands out.
The gung-ho new guy in your company understands this. Even the popular guys in your local high school grasp the concept of being celebrated and adored for a unique trait. Embrace the limelight and let the critics eat their hearts out.
You know what else is sexy? Mystery. Women are curious about strange, compelling men who seem to be keeping so many secrets. There’s an undercurrent of sexual tension in the atmosphere around a guy who exudes mystery.
The rationale for this is simple: the heroines in chick flicks and romance novels always fall for the mysterious guy, and normally always ditches the guy “who’s always there for her”. A mysterious guy allows others to form their own perception of who he is, then shows behavior that busts that perception every once in a while.
Think of the nice guy who suddenly smirks at a girl like an irrepressible horn dog. Or, the outspoken, egocentric guy who gets moved to tears by a news flash on homeless people in third world countries.
So here’s the formula for popularity. upgrade your fashion sense, show your real personality and be mysterious. Simple enough for an up and coming ladies’ man like you.
Listen here. This Seduction Mindbomb is just one of of the 47 tactics which I have developed with Derek to "foolproof" the seduction process for men just like you.
You will understand that if you don’t have the right methods to quickly induce attraction in women, dating and building intimate relationships will not be easy.
How do I know this? I spent the last ten years perfecting a simple strategy to kindle attraction in women. Getting dumped was so bad for me that I needed to learn how to never get dissed again.
Whether you're dating a girl or are still single, this strategy will come in handy. Just think of the possibility of deepening the attraction your girl has for you so that she will always be eternally obedient to you.
With this strategy, you will be armed to the teeth with systems that will ensure your desire for a girl's affection will come from a place of opportunity, not necessity.
The Rake: Extreme Popularity
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