Seduction On Steroids: Phone Game

Top 3 Deadliest "Phone Game" Mistakes You MUST Avoid 

 

If you've been diligently applying the techniques you learn from The Rake Letter (TRL), you shouldn't have too many problems getting phone numbers off women you meet anywhere.

Last Monday, a TRL reader emailed me, griping that while he was fairly successful at getting the digits, he had not been able to "move out of the Phone Area and into the Date Area", either, no matter what he did.

Back in the day, this was a massive problem that I faced. Here is one particular scenario that used to happen to me a lot…

After getting a hot chick's phone number, I'd think to myself, "Wow, we totally hit it off. I bet she's aching to see me a second time… and I bet we'll be having some crazy sex soon, too!"

Well, let's just say I was… wrong. After talking to each other on the phone several times, we lost whatever magical chemistry I thought we had… and she stopped returning my calls.

And then whenever I attempted to make plans, she'd say she was too busy :( Whenever I'd suggest us meeting up, she'd say something like, "That sounds great. I can't wait. Just call me first to confirm if I have any plans, okay?"

 

Then, when I would call to confirm, she'd say sorry and come up with an excuse like, "I'm so sorry, but my goldfish is currently having a mental breakdown."

Does this sound familiar to you at all?

Soon… I got tired of staying on the phone talking to women without going anywhere. It sucked balls.

So, what did I end up doing then? I turned into a nutjob. I would get every phone number I could, no matter what the woman looked like… whether she was young or old, thin or fat, had armpit hair and even smelly… I no longer cared.

And guess what… I even asked some of my friends to hand me any digits from the women they had gotten sick of and they laughed at me, saying: "Good luck with that, dude. She's a complete bitch. You won't get anywhere with that one."

But I ceased to care. I simply wanted to practice my phone skills. My work ethic had been impeccable.

After almost getting bankrupt because of my phone bills, I finally found out the secret on how to get women out of the "Phone Zone"… and into the "Date Zone".

Before I tell you what the secret is, though, I want to tell you more about my personal experience.

I found out that, while talking to women, most regular men make these mistakes. (You might see yourself as a playboy, but if you can't move from the phone zone to the date zone, you are probably making these mistakes too).

Mistake #1: Attempting to "Win" a Woman Over

Hopeless romantics (mostly newbies) usually try to "win over a woman's heart".

Most (if not all) women can talk for hours about how great it is when men go out of their way to win women over. This is good because everybody (not only women) likes to have their egos stroked. I know I do. In fact, I find it downright flattering.

Besides, several women end up having relationships and even marrying guys like that. However, these women usually never feel deeply attracted to those dudes.

Why?

If you have the power to emotionally bring about attraction to make women keep running after you, getting them from the phone zone into the date zone will be as easy as putting on a pair of flip flops.

Well, whenever you try to win a woman over, impress her, or get her validation, you are in fact making her think that she has higher "value" than you do. Also, you're sending out signals that you're afraid of losing her.

It makes her realize why you are talking to her – that she is something to be "won" over. But here's the kicker… it is a fact that women aren't attracted to men once they know men see them as a trophy to be won.

In fact, if you do this, you will quickly get rid of any attraction the woman might have felt for you in the past.

Consider yourself forewarned.

Mistake #2: Looking And Sounding Like A Dancing Monkey

Perhaps you are the kind of guys who thinks, "I don't attempt to win a woman's heart. Why, I'm even more entertaining and fun than more professional comedians out there, and the women adore me for it."

Sure, women respond to humor. However… every joke that you tell and each entertaining story that you share might ruin your chances of succeeding with a woman.

For instance, several of my friends are as funny as professional comedians and could even give guys like Eddie Murphy a run for the money. However, women tend to find them obnoxious and irritating.

Why?

Because they act entertaining and funny only to impress women.

See, if women know you want to win them over, regardless of how funny or entertaining she thinks you are, she will see you as a monkey trained to dance in a circus.

Even stories that suck the attention out of the room and jokes that make people pee their pants will be irritating if you make her feel that she's the trophy to be worn over.

However, I know several guys who are born with ZERO HUMOR that can leave women in complete stitches and fill them up with lust for several hours.

 

How do they do this?

They tell jokes to women the way they joke with their close buddies.

Whenever you hang out with your friends, most of the jokes that you make and the reasons why you goof around is just to amuse yourself, right?

So, keep in mind: whenever you talk to a woman over the phone, don't think about impressing her and have some fun instead. Enjoy your conversation. Keep yourself entertained. Pretend you aren't talking to a girl you want to bed, but just to a friend.

Mistake #3: Trying To Make Her Think That you're The "Perfect Boyfriend"

Another way of trying to win a woman's heart is trying to be the "Perfect Man" she wants you to be. A lot of guys tend to do this.

This is what tends to happen…

While talking on the phone with a woman, she will talk about what she likes and what she hates in men. 

Then, the majority of guys will try to prove themselves or qualify themselves to her that they are perfect for her.

Avoid doing this at all costs. Again, this will only show her that you see her as a trophy to be won. If she does end up listing her requirements and standards on the "perfect man" or starts talking about a man she truly likes, say something like, "you're really starting to bore me".

A newbie trying to be the "perfect man" would ask a woman questions about the kind of guy she likes. (I threw up a little inside my mouth with disgust just thinking about how I used to do this).

If you do this, stop immediately! Instead, I want you to make her want to be your perfect woman.

For instance, as you talk to her on the phone, you can enthuse: "I love our conversations. You seem pretty cool." Then object immediately by saying, "I do wish you had more adventure in you, though. You don't seem like the type who can actually handle me." Then wait for her response.

In short… you need to goad her into proving she can fill your quota on the "perfect woman". Compel her emotionally to run after you as a trophy she simply has to have.

If you have the power to emotionally bring about attraction to make women keep running after you, getting them from the phone zone into the date zone will be as easy as putting on a pair of flip flops.

You should be warned, though: if you aren't capable of regularly triggering attraction or emotionally making women run after you, your rate of success from getting them from the phone to a date will be incredibly low.

Be completely honest with me now… how many phone numbers have you gotten this year that actually became anything real?

Within the last half a year, have you wanted to get with certain women… but failed after trying?

If you really want to get some great results than you are getting now, then you need to make certain improvements in your life.

We may not know each other, but what I do know is this…

I want you to make her want to be your perfect woman. And with SeductionOnSteroids™, you'll be able to do just that. 

My teachings get amazing results. They consistently make women see men as trophies and bring about uncontrollable attraction within them.

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Seduction On Steroids: Phone Game