How To Attract Top-Notch Quality Women (A Two-Step Secret)
Even the most attractive men mess up when trying to seduce women they like, and the reason isn’t difficult to understand.
Right now I can hear you asking, they don’t understand how all women think? No, I don’t mean all women, just the type they want to attract.
You see, most guys have an idea what type of women they want to date. And, by this, I don’t just mean the hair color of these women or the body proportions.
I’m talking about the personality of these women they want to date. What they like to do on their spare time.
Some guys like the sporty types, while some like the homey gals who can cook up a storm.
We all differ in terms of our definition of a “quality woman”, and no matter how many guys tell us about their conquests, we will still be thinking “I have another type of woman I want to date, so how do I meet that exact type of woman?”
Most men can’t date and fall in love with just any type of girl, yet lack the experience needed to attract women who show the trait that they want.
"How To Attract Top Notch Quality Women Into Your Life – Two Simple Steps"
Here’s a step by step method for tweaking your technique to attract what to you is a quality woman:
Step #1: Identify all the qualities you want in a girl you will commit to.
If you say “any will do”, you’re not getting the point.
Clear your head and picture yourself approaching your dream girl. Does she have perky small breasts or big ones? What is she into? Is she holding a gym bag and grabbing a cup of early-morning coffee before she runs off to the firm where she works as an attorney? Or is she an ultra-fit BodyPump instructor with a tight bum?
Grab a pen and paper and list down all the things that the girl in your mind is doing, holding and saying.
Picture yourself talking to this girl. Is she telling you about a new dance studio that she frequents, a big concert she’s thinking of going to?
Strangely enough, you can determine the exact type of woman you want to date by taking the personality quizzes in various dating sites seriously.
Do you remember filling out one form after another when you joined a dating or matchmaking site? If you’re like most men, you probably skipped the whole “who would you like to meet” part because there are just too many blank spaces that you have to fill up; mainly about religion, culture, hobbies, habits, mannerisms and the like.
Now, take a moment and remember what was written on that form. You see “religion”, “hobbies” and “disposition” on one side and “height, hair color, body type” on another.
Fill those blank spaces inside your head and expound on why you want to date her.
You might be surprised to realize that you actually want to date someone who shares your own beliefs, who has the same family background, and who is passionate about a humanitarian cause or two.
After going through this exercise, you now have a clearer picture of the girl you want to date. The next thing to do is to write out a blueprint of how you will meet women who fit your “quality” criteria.
Step # 2: Be friends with several women who show most of the qualities you listed.
Befriend a woman who shows the qualities you want, and don’t try to hit on her.
I know you must be thinking “but I’d rather hook up with these women”, but hear me out. If you share a nice friendly relationship with several “quality” women, you will have a clearer picture of how they go about their day.
Moreover, you can be sure that these girls have friends who share the same qualities, and you want to meet those women too. Your goal is to study the archetype of the girls you would like to attract.
What are the benefits to being “just friends” with these women?
• This will tell other women that you can fit in with her and her friends socially. Most women love men who can relax with them. If you can hold your own with her friends, she will like you more.
• If another woman sees you chilling out with women like her, she automatically deduces that you’re a guy she can hang out with (very important!)
• You can practice conversing, socializing, and relating to the exact type of woman you want to date.
• You can practice being comfortable with women who show the qualities of your dream girl.
Now that you have several “quality” female friends, you can start studying the vibe that works with this type of women. What you need to do is watch for “cues” that a woman wants to hook up, or be romanced.
Maybe your new female platonic friends like to talk about the guys they went out with when you’re being “one of the girls”. You will see how they react to certain types of guys, and what they find cheesy and unappealing. You will also find out what a guy can do to tune in to their particular type of conversation.
For instance, you’re into sporty women and you had no clue that they like men who are not necessarily body builders but who are more than a bit mindful of their eating habits. You might have thought before the conversation that women find “food talk” un-sexy.
Now, your friend, who’s the exact same type of girl, thinks talking about the healthy food choices of really fit people is a wonderful way to connect. You would never have known that. You see how talking to an archetype of your ideal woman will educate you more?
"Why Being A 'Friend' Is Not That Bad After All…"
Sometimes, meeting a woman and being tagged as a friend isn’t the end of the world. There are things you can learn as a friend to her that you will never know of when you’re pursuing her and she’s trying to dodge your laser-targeted seduction tactics.
Getting inside her mind is something that you can do only under the nice comfy blanket called friendship.
Girls open up to their guy friends, and usually look for ways to set them up with women like them.
As soon as she realizes how her other friends can hang with you, she will start getting ideas and start introducing you.
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