Seduction On Steroids: How To Talk

How To Talk To Women – The Conversational Seductionist's Approach

 

Three Conversational Seduction Strategies From The Seduction Battlefield

 

by Colin Simone

Strategy #1: KNOW your TACTICS and put them to use, but never PLAN.

People make tons of plans in their lives. But why do we do this?

The answer: we plan to GET RID OF RISK.

The premise behind it is that if you prepare for things more, the higher the likelihood will be that you will be prepared when something unexpected happens.

This comes with a problem, though, which can be summed up with a well-known saying amongst war veterans and strategists:-

"Plans do not survive the first contact with the enemy."

This principle remains true when it comes to approaching and talking to women.

There is one simple difference between plan and tactics though:

Plans are fixed. Rigid.

Tactics are flexible. Fluid.

You cannot plan too much, so you have to have a set of TACTICS that actually work and won't lock you in a path that doesn't have any options. (Later I will share with you a free resource where you can get three Conversational Seduction TACTICS to get you going.)

Now, this terminology may appear to be a little confusing to you, so here is a more specific example:

The plan on talking to women.

Do you ever rehearse a conversation in your head and come up with clever witticisms to say to a woman?

Do everything then go totally haywire in the end when you're finally face-to-face with her?

You panic and lose control.

However, the problem didn't lie in memorizing several things.  Nope. The mistake is locking yourself in having to say it in a particular manner and order. Then, when she interjected, or replied in another way, you got completely thrown off-course.

Why does this happen?

Because you should only have one strategy: to talk about particular topics in order to bond with her. (Talk about how much you love dogs, for example.) It was the minute you needed to say your script that it became far too rigid and which made you lose the connection.

Plans happen to be rigid. Tactics happen to be flexible.

Bottom line: Ditch plans. Learn tactics.

Strategy #2: Observe The Battlefield.

This little axiom was hard for me to understand at first, but I later realized how vital it is when it comes to dating.

Once, the renowned military leader General George Patton stood with his cadets. He asked, "What is THE most vital secret to success in the military?"

They had lots of brilliant answers. However, he silenced all of them in the end by saying, "Observe the battlefield."

He meant that when you can truly SEE the terrain that you have to deal with, you will be able to see how the enemy will use the battlefield. Consequently, you can then grasp what you need to work with, and have a very POWERFUL awareness in the military altogether, eventually leading to victory.

As a strategist of dating and seduction, you need to be aware of the terrain of dating that you have to deal with.

You have to know more about the "enemy" – NOT the women!

The actual enemy in your arena would be YOURSELF.

The majority of the problems that guys have when it comes to women NEVER have anything to do with the women. Their actual challenge lies in managing their self-control, learning how to deal with conversations, and just NOT doing things that could turn off women.

The success in learning about talking to women actually has more to do with NOT making mistakes, such as talking about exes, asking bad questions, and bragging.

It definitely is as simple as that… however, it might not seem that easy at all.

Strategy #3: Know when you SHOULD withdraw.

As Sun Tzu (the author of The Art Of War) said:

"To fight, as well as conquer in every battle isn't the ultimate excellence; the ultimate excellence has to do with breaking the resistance of the enemy without a fight."

Understand that there is no need to "triumph" or "dominate" in order to win in games of seduction and dating. You simply have to know how to deal with female energy and guide it on to the goal you wish to achieve with her.

When it comes to martial arts, guys have to learn about blocking first since that is the easiest way to avoid a hit. (Aside from being attacked, anyway.)

However, blocking isn't very sophisticated. It would be much better to redirect or steer the energy of your opponent away from you.

Learning about how and when to AVOID taking action when it comes to women – when you SHOULDN'T talk, when you SHOULDN'T respond – would be the peak of Alpha Maleness in the eyes of women.

Guys usually feel like they need to respond to women when they ask questions. A lot of the time, however, you show more masculine power by NOT reacting or responding to her. This will show her that you DON'T wait for her approval.

Female resistance will usually melt after she feels like you aren't trying to GET things from her, but just want to give her a good time. No risks.

Seduction On Steroids: How To Talk