Saturday, February 25, 2012

How To Date A Woman Immediately After You Met Her

Most of the dates you go to are pre-planned, painstakingly mulled
over and re-done to achieve perfection. Even the delivery of the
offer should be rehearsed so that it's flawless and impossible to
resist.

This works well after you have built rapport with the girl you want
to date, and then you set out to get her number. By the time you
get around to calling her, she has lost the "magic" brought about
by your interaction.
 
Worse, she might have forgotten that she gave you her number and
why.

Spontaneity is a powerful tool when asking out a girl you just met.
Think about it. There's something risky about being spontaneous.
You ask a direct question, and get a direct answer.

Moreover, the girl will react according to how well you've prepped
her up for the date offer. She's expecting you to get her number
and set up a date later. She isn't expecting a date right then. 

There are many pitfalls to being spontaneous, but I think this is
the best way to push a woman into making a decision right there.
This is also a good way to take advantage of the rapport you've
built over the few minutes you've been talking to her.

A fair warning... Remember to seem casual enough so she won't freak
out thinking you only have that agenda in mind. You do NOT want a
girl you just met to think that you're rushing her to rip her
panties for you.

Here's how you do it... Don't go for a place that you need to drive
to. Pick a nice café nearby, or a fast food. From there progress to
something else that isn't too difficult to complete, like a quick
stroll around the park or a light dinner.

The point is to keep moving from one place to the next, seemingly
without direction. The spontaneity of the whole date will make her
feel excited rather than tense about the ending. If you do it
right, you will end up in your room doing all sorts of romantic
things to each other.

Warning...

You must NEVER invite her to a private place immediately. The
roundabout and spontaneous way is best if you want to make her feel
at ease with you enough to jump you when her excitement peaks.
Then, she can tell all her friends that "it just happened".

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