How To Fire Up A Woman's Sexual Urge For You
You leer at a woman's breasts and start to drool as she keeps talking and talking. She seems to be really interested in you. Your penis is throbbing and your ego is starting to pound like a drum.
Then she suddenly punches you in the groin and tells you she only wants to be friends, making your cajones shrink to the size of peanuts.
Does this experience sound familiar to you?
If it does, don't worry. Millions of guys have gone through the exact same thing before. I was one of them… once upon a time.
And if you're new to dating – trust me that you WILL come to experience this someday.It's called "LJBF" (abbreviation for the dreaded utterance "Let's Just Be Friends", it's never pleasant to be on the receiving end of this nasty line.
So, what makes women send men into the
friend's zone anyway? Is it because there simply is no connection or
attraction from their part? Maybe. However, there is something much more
important that makes women see men as friends and nothing more.
Want to know what that is? Then read this story…
I had a friend, John, whose fate was set to be a 40-year-old virgin.
He has decent looks, good education (a
degree from one of the finest liberal arts college in the East Coast)
and is financially stable. He also has no trouble talking to women,
triggering interest, sparking initial attraction, or starting
connection with them.
So, what was the problem with ol' Johnny?
He confided in me…
"Derek, I get along with women just fine, but here's the thing… they only ever see me as their little brother or friend.
Last year, I was able to sleep with lots of women. Sleep. But not more
than that. No sex. No steam. No access to the punani. Nothing!"
Elaborating further, he told me that he'd be brave enough to steal a kiss… but the women were always disgusted. They would push him and protest, "Why would you that?" The loser in him would then ask "why", to which he got the answer: "Johnny, kissing you is like, well, kissing my little brother."
For quite some time, he thought he smelled bad and even tried shit like "colon cleansing" and detoxing therapy.
Well, I told him straight-up what his
problem was. Several months ago, me, John and a mutual friend of ours
Shawn met some women at a club and asked them to come to my house
afterwards.
Things were going well.
However, John didn't seem at ease with how we were behaving around the
girls. We were a little aggressive, and we were dropping harmless sexual
innuendos in our conversations, and using kino techniques to make them
comfortable to physical escalation…
Everybody's reality is "flexible". No matter how much she acts like her vagina doesn't matter to her, you can reel her in and turn her naughty if you give her that self-image.
And yet, he made the biggest blunder one
could ever make, and said to the ladies, "Hey, if Derek and Shawn are
being too aggressive, just tell me and I'll do something about it."
To that, the girls said, "We just wanted to chill and hang out, but your friends seem to only have sex on their minds!"
So, John dragged me to the kitchen and whispered to me, "Dude… they don't want to sleep with us. They just want to chill."
Soon after that, however…
One of them whisked me away to my
bedroom… and she certainly didn't sound like she only "wanted to chill".
Her intentions seemed purely sexual to me.
What does this mean? Why do girls send mixed up signals?
The truth is this…
Women want to live up to whatever image you assign to them.
Just think about every proper woman you know who doesn't like sex. Since that is the image they are given, they will live up to it. However, if you see a woman as a naughty sex maniac who wants nothing but sex, she will act accordingly.
Lil Johnny and I got varying results since we each gave our girls a certain self-image. I planted a "psychological structure" into her head that made her act on any sexual arousal present.
Maybe you only want to attract
"respectable" girls. Or maybe you want a real relationship. Perhaps you
aren't interested in being a bad influence to a good girl. I understand.
Here are two things you need to consider, though…
One. Women will be more prepared to start a relationship with you if you have already had sex.Two. You will have a much easier time getting a woman to have sex with you if you give her that exact self-image to begin with.
But what should you do if the woman you want acts like a nun sworn to celibacy?
Well, you need to assume that it is all an act and that she is actually sexual deep inside.
Remember this…
Everybody's reality is "flexible".
No matter how much she acts like her vagina doesn't matter to her, you can reel her in and turn her naughty if you give her that self-image.
Through the years, I have concluded that female attraction has a lot to do with a combination of (1) physical arousal, and (2) psychological triggers that will make a woman act on her sexual urges.
There are various brain triggers out
there that can make a woman act on sexual urges; giving her a certain
self-image would only be one of many.
If you are worrying whether you need a
12-inch dick or Brad Pitt's face, Donald Trump's money or Ryan Reynolds'
abs to build up sexual arousal and fire off the psychological triggers
that will make women act upon them, then don't. These things do help…
but they are not necessary.
Here's the deal…
If you have the skills and the knowledge
to build up sexual arousal in order to stimulate certain psychological
triggers to make women act on arousal, looks and money will not matter
in the slightest.
Be warned, though… not a lot of men today have these skills or this knowledge.
And that is what truly fires me up.
This is the reason why I have taken action and put a course together known as SeductionOnSteroids™, wherein you can get the low-down on how to build up female sexual arousal as quickly as possible… and how to trigger the female brain's psychological triggers that make them act on urges.
Female attraction has a lot to do with a combination of (1) physical
arousal, and (2) psychological triggers that will make a woman act on
her sexual urges.
I might not know you personally, but what I do know is every (straight) man wants to succeed when it comes to women. That is why you have read this article all the way through.
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