The Rake: Age Objection

Getting judged because of your age or age group is a nightmare, I can tell you from experience. 

Most of the time, women dig you and banter with you comfortably until they start guessing your age (or you tell them yourself).

To illustrate this dilemma, imagine a young guy who can open conversations with women like a dream.

He can start a sexually-charged discourse with any woman and get her lusting for him. Think eye-to-eye contact, visible heart bubbles over her head… she’s quite ready to give in anytime, until he opens his mouth and tells her his real age...

...and BOOM!

Her hot loins freeze over, her heart turns black, her flirty glances turn serious, and she looks at you like she just saw you.

As you talk to her, she puts on a quizzical look and asks the question that’s burning in her brain right at that moment… “How old are you?”

Talk about getting hit where it hurts most. Believe me, I’ve felt this same feeling many times in the past whenever a girl busts my ego by telling me I’m too young, not old enough, or too adolescent for her to date.

From that moment on, you can expect her to say something like “Um… yeah… well, I don’t date guys your age”, “you’re cute like my little brother”, “you remind me of my eldest son”, or “I really don’t date younger guys”.

Now, what’s a guy to do if faced with this scenario? Do you just sit there and take it? Do not wait for your ego to return to its normal size.

Instead, do something to bounce the criticism back at her so she will know never to judge a virile guy by his age alone in the future (and of course, to turn the situation around to your benefit).

Now, a blast to Derek Rake's past...

Although most mails I receive regarding the age issue come from women complaining how this or that guy is way older, your questions really made me smile because I got to go back to the way I was treated by older women in the past as soon as they learned how much younger I was compared to their age.

Women then always made me feel inferior by acting haughty about their experience. For some reason age equates experience to most women, and when they find out you’re way younger, they would automatically assume you don’t have what it takes for them to date.

No woman wants to babysit, I can tell you that much. But sometimes, there are women who simply dislike dating younger men, just because. No reason given, and no apologies issued. This tendency to get busted like this for being ‘too young’ is painful at the very least.

Now that I’m older, I’ve had to deal with this from the other end of the spectrum. Suddenly, some girls are thinking I’m too old for them to date!

It’s funny how things turn out, but the best part of being a part of this whole age shenanigan is getting to know some methods to make her think of you differently regardless of her age-bias and regardless of your age.

I’m going to show you how to turn the situation around … and make her feel attracted instead of turned off in as little as 30 seconds.

Here’s how you start to turn it around...

------------------------------

Derek Rake's
Ageless Seduction Formula
(It Works When She Told You You're Either Too Old...or Too Young)

------------------------------

You have to understand women’s insecurities to pull it off, so listen up.

Age is quite unimportant for most guys. Think about it. Justin Timberlake is considered hot, and in many forums or lists, he’s even pitted against George Clooney and even Harrison Ford. Did I mention Sean Connery? He’s a senior citizen, yet his stare can still turn women to jelly.

Moreover, most women don’t add the phrase ‘for an older guy’ when they describe these men… they flat out think these guys are HOT.

What’s the logic behind that? Justin’s at least 20 years younger than most ‘older men’ but women put them in a list of sexiest men on earth together. This tells us that age doesn’t matter … for guys.

However, for women, it’s a different ball game. You might not notice it, but there are no stereotypes against men who sport ‘maturity lines’, while the most successful ad campaigns for cosmetics generally target the pain towards women.

You don’t need to look at the profits of various Botox clinics to realize the obvious. Women make an issue of age, because they are generally very conscious about theirs.

If you’re a woman and your name is not ‘Demi Moore’ or ‘Drew Barrymore’ your self-consciousness regarding your age’s effect on your looks is way up there. So let’s see how men like us can use that bit of knowledge to our advantage.

How to handle 'tricky' situations regarding age...

Don’t get me wrong, I personally like older women, and I think the maturity they have is attractive.

But if push comes to shove and a woman tries to make me feel inferior to her because of my age, I won’t hesitate to flip things around to get her turned on.

Albeit, that’s not the way our culture is set up. For females, their age and looks are fused together. You can tease a girl about her age when she starts giving you the snotty about how young you are.

Do it like the cosmetics marketers do… push her age-looks pain button and it won’t matter if she’s just a year older than you. She will undoubtedly feel the sting of your flippant remarks, and start reacting.

When she goes on her ‘reactive phase’, you know what that means right? You can push some more buttons to immediately generate attraction and get her coming home with you.

If she notices that the age comment affected you in any way, she will think she’s the prize and you should prove yourself to her before she flirts with you again.

Instead of falling for it, do this: throw a neg about her age and see her whole confidence crumble. Tease her lightly with words that clearly say you think her regard for your age is foolish. Here’s an example:

Her: “You’re way too young for me. Come back when you’re older”
Me: “You’re absolutely right. You’re way older than me. You’re past your prime in ‘girly years’. “

If she asks about that remark or if she looks shocked, educate her further by saying, “a girl’s age peaks at 18. That’s when her modeling career takes off. If she’s lucky, it stays good until she’s 25. You at 27 is basically a senior citizen amongst hot women.”

Are you catching my drift? :)

She will probably laugh in recognition of a rebuke, and that’s when you can really get her.

This tactic works like gangbusters, and here's why...

First of all, she sees you in a new light. You’re the impertinent man of the world who dared challenge her ego so you must be something else.

Another thing, even if you told her she’s way old in your eyes, you still gave her a compliment somehow (by pitting her against hot young girls aged 18-25)… but still, you made her uneasy and she feels provoked.

When you get her in this state, you have her where you want her. You will have her thinking of ways to prove herself to you.

The combination of indignant reaction, heightened senses, emotional discomfort and fuming gives rise to an emotion women interpret as ‘attraction.’ Believe it!

Dude, look...

I may not have an idea of the type of women you may be attracted to (or if they are much younger or older), nor do I know your preferences but this is what I know…

Take it from me and learn from my techniques for best results because I had been studying the female species over the last six years and have become familiar with the mechanism that triggers attraction for women.

The Rake: Age Objection