Seduction On Steroids: Covert Hypnosis

Mind Blowing Covert Hypnosis Video

Here's a very popular video of famous hypnotist and mentalist Derren Brown performing Covert Hypnosis. There's absolutely no trickery here…it's purely covert hypnosis in "real life". Derren Brown's the real deal.

 

 

Here's the good news: everything that you've just seen can be learned and copied. Once you know the method, you can achieve the same results as you've seen in the video above. Imagine how your "powers" with women would multiply if you have Covert Hypnosis in your seduction arsenal.

Seduction On Steroids: Covert Hypnosis

Seduction On Steroids: Attract Quality

How To Attract Top-Notch Quality Women (A Two-Step Secret)

 

Even the most attractive men mess up when trying to seduce women they like, and the reason isn’t difficult to understand.

They get the approach part right because they are attractive and women are instantly captivated, but they mess up the conversation part because they don’t understand how women think.

Right now I can hear you asking, they don’t understand how all women think? No, I don’t mean all women, just the type they want to attract.

You see, most guys have an idea what type of women they want to date. And, by this, I don’t just mean the hair color of these women or the body proportions.

I’m talking about the personality of these women they want to date. What they like to do on their spare time.
Some guys like the sporty types, while some like the homey gals who can cook up a storm.

We all differ in terms of our definition of a “quality woman”, and no matter how many guys tell us about their conquests, we will still be thinking “I have another type of woman I want to date, so how do I meet that exact type of woman?”

Most men can’t date and fall in love with just any type of girl, yet lack the experience needed to attract women who show the trait that they want.

"How To Attract Top Notch Quality Women Into Your Life – Two Simple Steps"

 

Here’s a step by step method for tweaking your technique to attract what to you is a quality woman:

Step #1: Identify all the qualities you want in a girl you will commit to.

If you say “any will do”, you’re not getting the point.

Clear your head and picture yourself approaching your dream girl. Does she have perky small breasts or big ones? What is she into? Is she holding a gym bag and grabbing a cup of early-morning coffee before she runs off to the firm where she works as an attorney? Or is she an ultra-fit BodyPump instructor with a tight bum?

Grab a pen and paper and list down all the things that the girl in your mind is doing, holding and saying.

Picture yourself talking to this girl. Is she telling you about a new dance studio that she frequents, a big concert she’s thinking of going to?

Strangely enough, you can determine the exact type of woman you want to date by taking the personality quizzes in various dating sites seriously.

Do you remember filling out one form after another when you joined a dating or matchmaking site? If you’re like most men, you probably skipped the whole “who would you like to meet” part because there are just too many blank spaces that you have to fill up; mainly about religion, culture, hobbies, habits, mannerisms and the like.

Now, take a moment and remember what was written on that form. You see “religion”, “hobbies” and “disposition” on one side and “height, hair color, body type” on another.

Fill those blank spaces inside your head and expound on why you want to date her.

You might be surprised to realize that you actually want to date someone who shares your own beliefs, who has the same family background, and who is passionate about a humanitarian cause or two.

After going through this exercise, you now have a clearer picture of the girl you want to date. The next thing to do is to write out a blueprint of how you will meet women who fit your “quality” criteria.

Step # 2: Be friends with several women who show most of the qualities you listed.

Befriend a woman who shows the qualities you want, and don’t try to hit on her.

I know you must be thinking “but I’d rather hook up with these women”, but hear me out. If you share a nice friendly relationship with several “quality” women, you will have a clearer picture of how they go about their day.

Moreover, you can be sure that these girls have friends who share the same qualities, and you want to meet those women too. Your goal is to study the archetype of the girls you would like to attract.

What are the benefits to being “just friends” with these women?

•    This will tell other women that you can fit in with her and her friends socially. Most women love men who can relax with them. If you can hold your own with her friends, she will like you more.

•    If another woman sees you chilling out with women like her, she automatically deduces that you’re a guy she can hang out with (very important!)

•    You can practice conversing, socializing, and relating to the exact type of woman you want to date.

•    You can practice being comfortable with women who show the qualities of your dream girl.

Now that you have several “quality” female friends, you can start studying the vibe that works with this type of women. What you need to do is watch for “cues” that a woman wants to hook up, or be romanced.

Maybe your new female platonic friends like to talk about the guys they went out with when you’re being “one of the girls”. You will see how they react to certain types of guys, and what they find cheesy and unappealing. You will also find out what a guy can do to tune in to their particular type of conversation.

For instance, you’re into sporty women and you had no clue that they like men who are not necessarily body builders but who are more than a bit mindful of their eating habits. You might have thought before the conversation that women find “food talk” un-sexy.

Now, your friend, who’s the exact same type of girl, thinks talking about the healthy food choices of really fit people is a wonderful way to connect. You would never have known that. You see how talking to an archetype of your ideal woman will educate you more?

"Why Being A 'Friend' Is Not That Bad After All…"

 

Sometimes, meeting a woman and being tagged as a friend isn’t the end of the world. There are things you can learn as a friend to her that you will never know of when you’re pursuing her and she’s trying to dodge your laser-targeted seduction tactics.

Getting inside her mind is something that you can do only under the nice comfy blanket called friendship.

Girls open up to their guy friends, and usually look for ways to set them up with women like them.
As soon as she realizes how her other friends can hang with you, she will start getting ideas and start introducing you.

Seduction On Steroids: Attract Quality

Seduction On Steroids: How To Talk

How To Talk To Women – The Conversational Seductionist's Approach

 

Three Conversational Seduction Strategies From The Seduction Battlefield

 

by Colin Simone

Strategy #1: KNOW your TACTICS and put them to use, but never PLAN.

People make tons of plans in their lives. But why do we do this?

The answer: we plan to GET RID OF RISK.

The premise behind it is that if you prepare for things more, the higher the likelihood will be that you will be prepared when something unexpected happens.

This comes with a problem, though, which can be summed up with a well-known saying amongst war veterans and strategists:-

"Plans do not survive the first contact with the enemy."

This principle remains true when it comes to approaching and talking to women.

There is one simple difference between plan and tactics though:

Plans are fixed. Rigid.

Tactics are flexible. Fluid.

You cannot plan too much, so you have to have a set of TACTICS that actually work and won't lock you in a path that doesn't have any options. (Later I will share with you a free resource where you can get three Conversational Seduction TACTICS to get you going.)

Now, this terminology may appear to be a little confusing to you, so here is a more specific example:

The plan on talking to women.

Do you ever rehearse a conversation in your head and come up with clever witticisms to say to a woman?

Do everything then go totally haywire in the end when you're finally face-to-face with her?

You panic and lose control.

However, the problem didn't lie in memorizing several things.  Nope. The mistake is locking yourself in having to say it in a particular manner and order. Then, when she interjected, or replied in another way, you got completely thrown off-course.

Why does this happen?

Because you should only have one strategy: to talk about particular topics in order to bond with her. (Talk about how much you love dogs, for example.) It was the minute you needed to say your script that it became far too rigid and which made you lose the connection.

Plans happen to be rigid. Tactics happen to be flexible.

Bottom line: Ditch plans. Learn tactics.

Strategy #2: Observe The Battlefield.

This little axiom was hard for me to understand at first, but I later realized how vital it is when it comes to dating.

Once, the renowned military leader General George Patton stood with his cadets. He asked, "What is THE most vital secret to success in the military?"

They had lots of brilliant answers. However, he silenced all of them in the end by saying, "Observe the battlefield."

He meant that when you can truly SEE the terrain that you have to deal with, you will be able to see how the enemy will use the battlefield. Consequently, you can then grasp what you need to work with, and have a very POWERFUL awareness in the military altogether, eventually leading to victory.

As a strategist of dating and seduction, you need to be aware of the terrain of dating that you have to deal with.

You have to know more about the "enemy" – NOT the women!

The actual enemy in your arena would be YOURSELF.

The majority of the problems that guys have when it comes to women NEVER have anything to do with the women. Their actual challenge lies in managing their self-control, learning how to deal with conversations, and just NOT doing things that could turn off women.

The success in learning about talking to women actually has more to do with NOT making mistakes, such as talking about exes, asking bad questions, and bragging.

It definitely is as simple as that… however, it might not seem that easy at all.

Strategy #3: Know when you SHOULD withdraw.

As Sun Tzu (the author of The Art Of War) said:

"To fight, as well as conquer in every battle isn't the ultimate excellence; the ultimate excellence has to do with breaking the resistance of the enemy without a fight."

Understand that there is no need to "triumph" or "dominate" in order to win in games of seduction and dating. You simply have to know how to deal with female energy and guide it on to the goal you wish to achieve with her.

When it comes to martial arts, guys have to learn about blocking first since that is the easiest way to avoid a hit. (Aside from being attacked, anyway.)

However, blocking isn't very sophisticated. It would be much better to redirect or steer the energy of your opponent away from you.

Learning about how and when to AVOID taking action when it comes to women – when you SHOULDN'T talk, when you SHOULDN'T respond – would be the peak of Alpha Maleness in the eyes of women.

Guys usually feel like they need to respond to women when they ask questions. A lot of the time, however, you show more masculine power by NOT reacting or responding to her. This will show her that you DON'T wait for her approval.

Female resistance will usually melt after she feels like you aren't trying to GET things from her, but just want to give her a good time. No risks.

Seduction On Steroids: How To Talk

Seduction On Steroids: Trust Talk

How To Make A Woman Trust You Completely… Using A Sneaky "Mind Control" Trick

 

Here's a little-known fact that's seldom discussed by any other "gurus": for a woman to want to be with a guy, attraction is NEVER enough…

In addition to "liking" a guy, she must be able to TRUST him. Without TRUST, she won't be sleeping with him anytime soon… no matter how much she is ATTRACTED to him.

On the other hand, if you are able to make a woman like AND trust you, you'll be able to make her do anything for you… including sleeping with you.

Remember: ATTRACTION + TRUST = SEX.

And the good news is that trust is relatively easy to build… and you can make a woman trust you completely even if she has just met you. Call it a "loophole" inside a woman's brain, but if you use the right techniques then a woman won't have a choice but to give in to you.

One of the best ways to induce "quick" trust is to use a SonicSeduction™ technique called the "Trust Talk". It's a "low hanging fruit" tactic that I teach a new SonicSeduction™ student… because it's devastatingly effective but easy to pull off at the same time.

Download the Trust Talk Technique by clicking on this link here - Trust Talk Technique

Seduction On Steroids: Trust Talk

Seduction On Steroids: Phone Game

Top 3 Deadliest "Phone Game" Mistakes You MUST Avoid 

 

If you've been diligently applying the techniques you learn from The Rake Letter (TRL), you shouldn't have too many problems getting phone numbers off women you meet anywhere.

Last Monday, a TRL reader emailed me, griping that while he was fairly successful at getting the digits, he had not been able to "move out of the Phone Area and into the Date Area", either, no matter what he did.

Back in the day, this was a massive problem that I faced. Here is one particular scenario that used to happen to me a lot…

After getting a hot chick's phone number, I'd think to myself, "Wow, we totally hit it off. I bet she's aching to see me a second time… and I bet we'll be having some crazy sex soon, too!"

Well, let's just say I was… wrong. After talking to each other on the phone several times, we lost whatever magical chemistry I thought we had… and she stopped returning my calls.

And then whenever I attempted to make plans, she'd say she was too busy :( Whenever I'd suggest us meeting up, she'd say something like, "That sounds great. I can't wait. Just call me first to confirm if I have any plans, okay?"

 

Then, when I would call to confirm, she'd say sorry and come up with an excuse like, "I'm so sorry, but my goldfish is currently having a mental breakdown."

Does this sound familiar to you at all?

Soon… I got tired of staying on the phone talking to women without going anywhere. It sucked balls.

So, what did I end up doing then? I turned into a nutjob. I would get every phone number I could, no matter what the woman looked like… whether she was young or old, thin or fat, had armpit hair and even smelly… I no longer cared.

And guess what… I even asked some of my friends to hand me any digits from the women they had gotten sick of and they laughed at me, saying: "Good luck with that, dude. She's a complete bitch. You won't get anywhere with that one."

But I ceased to care. I simply wanted to practice my phone skills. My work ethic had been impeccable.

After almost getting bankrupt because of my phone bills, I finally found out the secret on how to get women out of the "Phone Zone"… and into the "Date Zone".

Before I tell you what the secret is, though, I want to tell you more about my personal experience.

I found out that, while talking to women, most regular men make these mistakes. (You might see yourself as a playboy, but if you can't move from the phone zone to the date zone, you are probably making these mistakes too).

Mistake #1: Attempting to "Win" a Woman Over

Hopeless romantics (mostly newbies) usually try to "win over a woman's heart".

Most (if not all) women can talk for hours about how great it is when men go out of their way to win women over. This is good because everybody (not only women) likes to have their egos stroked. I know I do. In fact, I find it downright flattering.

Besides, several women end up having relationships and even marrying guys like that. However, these women usually never feel deeply attracted to those dudes.

Why?

If you have the power to emotionally bring about attraction to make women keep running after you, getting them from the phone zone into the date zone will be as easy as putting on a pair of flip flops.

Well, whenever you try to win a woman over, impress her, or get her validation, you are in fact making her think that she has higher "value" than you do. Also, you're sending out signals that you're afraid of losing her.

It makes her realize why you are talking to her – that she is something to be "won" over. But here's the kicker… it is a fact that women aren't attracted to men once they know men see them as a trophy to be won.

In fact, if you do this, you will quickly get rid of any attraction the woman might have felt for you in the past.

Consider yourself forewarned.

Mistake #2: Looking And Sounding Like A Dancing Monkey

Perhaps you are the kind of guys who thinks, "I don't attempt to win a woman's heart. Why, I'm even more entertaining and fun than more professional comedians out there, and the women adore me for it."

Sure, women respond to humor. However… every joke that you tell and each entertaining story that you share might ruin your chances of succeeding with a woman.

For instance, several of my friends are as funny as professional comedians and could even give guys like Eddie Murphy a run for the money. However, women tend to find them obnoxious and irritating.

Why?

Because they act entertaining and funny only to impress women.

See, if women know you want to win them over, regardless of how funny or entertaining she thinks you are, she will see you as a monkey trained to dance in a circus.

Even stories that suck the attention out of the room and jokes that make people pee their pants will be irritating if you make her feel that she's the trophy to be worn over.

However, I know several guys who are born with ZERO HUMOR that can leave women in complete stitches and fill them up with lust for several hours.

 

How do they do this?

They tell jokes to women the way they joke with their close buddies.

Whenever you hang out with your friends, most of the jokes that you make and the reasons why you goof around is just to amuse yourself, right?

So, keep in mind: whenever you talk to a woman over the phone, don't think about impressing her and have some fun instead. Enjoy your conversation. Keep yourself entertained. Pretend you aren't talking to a girl you want to bed, but just to a friend.

Mistake #3: Trying To Make Her Think That you're The "Perfect Boyfriend"

Another way of trying to win a woman's heart is trying to be the "Perfect Man" she wants you to be. A lot of guys tend to do this.

This is what tends to happen…

While talking on the phone with a woman, she will talk about what she likes and what she hates in men. 

Then, the majority of guys will try to prove themselves or qualify themselves to her that they are perfect for her.

Avoid doing this at all costs. Again, this will only show her that you see her as a trophy to be won. If she does end up listing her requirements and standards on the "perfect man" or starts talking about a man she truly likes, say something like, "you're really starting to bore me".

A newbie trying to be the "perfect man" would ask a woman questions about the kind of guy she likes. (I threw up a little inside my mouth with disgust just thinking about how I used to do this).

If you do this, stop immediately! Instead, I want you to make her want to be your perfect woman.

For instance, as you talk to her on the phone, you can enthuse: "I love our conversations. You seem pretty cool." Then object immediately by saying, "I do wish you had more adventure in you, though. You don't seem like the type who can actually handle me." Then wait for her response.

In short… you need to goad her into proving she can fill your quota on the "perfect woman". Compel her emotionally to run after you as a trophy she simply has to have.

If you have the power to emotionally bring about attraction to make women keep running after you, getting them from the phone zone into the date zone will be as easy as putting on a pair of flip flops.

You should be warned, though: if you aren't capable of regularly triggering attraction or emotionally making women run after you, your rate of success from getting them from the phone to a date will be incredibly low.

Be completely honest with me now… how many phone numbers have you gotten this year that actually became anything real?

Within the last half a year, have you wanted to get with certain women… but failed after trying?

If you really want to get some great results than you are getting now, then you need to make certain improvements in your life.

We may not know each other, but what I do know is this…

I want you to make her want to be your perfect woman. And with SeductionOnSteroids™, you'll be able to do just that. 

My teachings get amazing results. They consistently make women see men as trophies and bring about uncontrollable attraction within them.

Just as a lot of other men have been doing, you can change your lifestyle today by getting a copy of my groundbreaking SeductionOnSteroids™ course now. It's the first complete seduction blueprint ever to be developed, and has since helped hundreds of guys like you achieve spectacular success with women.

Seduction On Steroids: Phone Game

Seduction On Steroids: Fire Her Up

How To Fire Up A Woman's Sexual Urge For You

You leer at a woman's breasts and start to drool as she keeps talking and talking. She seems to be really interested in you. Your penis is throbbing and your ego is starting to pound like a drum.

Then she suddenly punches you in the groin and tells you she only wants to be friends, making your cajones shrink to the size of peanuts.

Does this experience sound familiar to you?

If it does, don't worry. Millions of guys have gone through the exact same thing before. I was one of them… once upon a time.

And if you're new to dating – trust me that you WILL come to experience this someday.It's called "LJBF" (abbreviation for the dreaded utterance "Let's Just Be Friends", it's never pleasant to be on the receiving end of this nasty line.

So, what makes women send men into the friend's zone anyway? Is it because there simply is no connection or attraction from their part? Maybe. However, there is something much more important that makes women see men as friends and nothing more.

Want to know what that is? Then read this story…

I had a friend, John, whose fate was set to be a 40-year-old virgin.

He has decent looks, good education (a degree from one of the finest liberal arts college in the East Coast) and is financially stable. He also has no trouble talking to women, triggering interest, sparking initial attraction, or starting  connection with them.

So, what was the problem with ol' Johnny?

He confided in me…

"Derek, I get along with women just fine, but here's the thing… they only ever see me as their little brother or friend. Last year, I was able to sleep with lots of women. Sleep. But not more than that. No sex. No steam. No access to the punani. Nothing!"

Elaborating further, he told me that he'd be brave enough to steal a kiss… but the women were always disgusted. They would push him and protest, "Why would you that?" The loser in him would then ask "why", to which he got the answer: "Johnny, kissing you is like, well, kissing my little brother."

For quite some time, he thought he smelled bad and even tried shit like "colon cleansing" and detoxing therapy.

Well, I told him straight-up what his problem was. Several months ago, me, John and a mutual friend of ours Shawn met some women at a club and asked them to come to my house afterwards.

Things were going well.

However, John didn't seem at ease with how we were behaving around the girls. We were a little aggressive, and we were dropping harmless sexual innuendos in our conversations, and using kino techniques to make them comfortable to physical escalation…

Everybody's reality is "flexible". No matter how much she acts like her vagina doesn't matter to her, you can reel her in and turn her naughty if you give her that self-image.

And yet, he made the biggest blunder one could ever make, and said to the ladies, "Hey, if Derek and Shawn are being too aggressive, just tell me and I'll do something about it."

To that, the girls said, "We just wanted to chill and hang out, but your friends seem to only have sex on their minds!"

So, John dragged me to the kitchen and whispered to me, "Dude… they don't want to sleep with us. They just want to chill."

Soon after that, however…

One of them whisked me away to my bedroom… and she certainly didn't sound like she only "wanted to chill". Her intentions seemed purely sexual to me.

What does this mean? Why do girls send mixed up signals?

The truth is this…

Women want to live up to whatever image you assign to them.

Just think about every proper woman you know who doesn't like sex. Since that is the image they are given, they will live up to it. However, if you see a woman as a naughty sex maniac who wants nothing but sex, she will act accordingly.

Lil Johnny and I got varying results since we each gave our girls a certain self-image. I planted a "psychological structure" into her head that made her act on any sexual arousal present.

Maybe you only want to attract "respectable" girls. Or maybe you want a real relationship. Perhaps you aren't interested in being a bad influence to a good girl. I understand.

Here are two things you need to consider, though…

One. Women will be more prepared to start a relationship with you if you have already had sex.

Two. You will have a much easier time getting a woman to have sex with you if you give her that exact self-image to begin with.

But what should you do if the woman you want acts like a nun sworn to celibacy?

Well, you need to assume that it is all an act and that she is actually sexual deep inside.

Remember this…

Everybody's reality is "flexible".  

No matter how much she acts like her vagina doesn't matter to her, you can reel her in and turn her naughty if you give her that self-image.

Through the years, I have concluded that female attraction has a lot to do with a combination of (1) physical arousal, and (2) psychological triggers that will make a woman act on her sexual urges.

There are various brain triggers out there that can make a woman act on sexual urges; giving her a certain self-image would only be one of many.

If you are worrying whether you need a 12-inch dick or Brad Pitt's face, Donald Trump's money or Ryan Reynolds' abs to build up sexual arousal and fire off the psychological triggers that will make women act upon them, then don't. These things do help… but they are not necessary.

Here's the deal…

If you have the skills and the knowledge to build up sexual arousal in order to stimulate certain psychological triggers to make women act on arousal, looks and money will not matter in the slightest.

Be warned, though… not a lot of men today have these skills or this knowledge.

And that is what truly fires me up.

This is the reason why I have taken action and put a course together known as SeductionOnSteroids™, wherein you can get the low-down on how to build up female sexual arousal as quickly as possible… and how to trigger the female brain's psychological triggers that make them act on urges.

Female attraction has a lot to do with a combination of (1) physical arousal, and (2) psychological triggers that will make a woman act on her sexual urges.

I might not know you personally, but what I do know is every (straight) man wants to succeed when it comes to women. That is why you have read this article all the way through.

As with other men out there, however, you can get all the dating knowledge you need and change your lifestyle right now by getting SeductionOnSteroids™ now. It's a simple, 10-step roadmap that any man can use to get that edge in dating…

… and discover the "forbidden" seduction knowledge on how to fire up a woman's psychological triggers to make her want you… and want you badly.

Seduction On Steroids: Fire Her Up

Seduction On Steroids: Zero Rejection

How To Let A Girl Know You're Interested (With 0% Rejection Risk)

Let's face it – it's tough.

When you let a woman know you like her, all the power in the relationship shifts to her. She can make you the happiest guy on earth by saying "I like you, too!". Or… she can say, "I'm not interested, sorry" and watch your world come crumbling down.

Courtship is indeed risky…

…which is why you should learn this very essential courtship and seduction skill. You must master the ability to let a woman know that you're interested WITHOUT ever giving her a chance to reject you.

The good news is there's one super easy way to do this. If you can spare five minutes reading the rest of the article and then follow the details, you'll love the results that you will get.

Dating sucks…

… because it's blatantly unfair to men. Why do I say that? You see, in usual situations, the girl gets all the power and controls the relationship almost by default.

For example, the moment you approach a girl, she knows automatically that you are interested in her. At that time, she could decide whether to accept you… or to reject you.

I was stuck in similar situations for more than 25 years of my life… until I stumbled upon a BETTER way, which I call the ZERO REJECTION method…

You obviously agree with me that approaching and talking to women would be fun if there's not so much "Rejection Risk" involved.

Every time you approach a woman, there's a chance that she's going to sleep with you. And with the "Rejection Risk" taken out of the equation, it all suddenly becomes super exciting and easy!

Let me tell you how to remove the Rejection Risk in two simple steps:

STEP #1: Size her up BEFORE you approach her. This sounds obvious, but most guys NEVER take the time to figure out a woman BEFORE approaching her.

You see, you want to get a "read" of her personality before so that you can know for sure what makes her attracted to a man. When you've done that, you just show her those traits in you that appeals to her. At that point, it would be crazy for her to turn you down… because you "match" her description of a perfect match.

Get clues about her Personality Type by observing her BEFORE the approach

Some things to look out for:-

• The people she is with (size them up as well). What kind of guys are hitting on her?
• Her clothes and accessories (necklaces, earrings, etc)
• Tattoos
• Her drink
• What she's doing (e.g. if she's at the bookstore, what she's reading)

Take all this information and move on to the second step…

STEP #2: Figure out her Personality Type

Put all the information you have on her together and build up her "profile". Imagine how she would be OUTSIDE the place where you met her.

Building up profiles is that many government organizations (hint: FBI, the US Army) and companies (Bank of America, Yale) do regularly, and I'm going to teach you the same methods that these organizations use. The way to do this is actually pretty simple…

You DON'T have to build her profile from scratch – that's just too hard. Instead, you can take the shortcut and figure out one of the EIGHT types of profiles of a woman she is. To put it simply, you just need to select her Personality Type from a menu – the same way you choose a drink from the bar menu.

This is especially crucial because each Personality Type likes different things from you… and different things turn them on… and they bond with men in different ways.

In short, if you know a woman's Personality Type, you know EVERYTHING that you need to know in order to attract her. Checkmate.

Seduction On Steroids: Zero Rejection

Seduction On Steroids: Fantasy

How To Feed A Woman's (Sexual) Fantasy [GUIDE]

Do you know what a 'Peacocker' is?

They're the guys who wear top hats who have gold medallion necklaces with the male insignia carved on them around their necks and paint their nails silver.

Are you aware of what line they used to pick up women?

"What's your sign? We have compatible signs. Destiny has clearly brought us together tonight."

If things seemed to be going well, they might have done a little tongue dance to show how good they would be at oral sex.

Gross, right? But guess what…

A lot of women actually fell for that line. I know, because I was there when "peacocking" was all the rage during the early days of "PUAism".

But still, powerful mechanisms existed in that line. And here's why it worked…

…once she indulges in a fantasy of a higher power, she will feel completely relinquished of any responsibility.

See, a lot of women have the romantic fantasy of a male stranger asking them for directions to some place. They are intensely attracted to one another. They have a mind, soul, and body connection. They fall for each other. And are happy for life.

There is a lot of subtle psychology hidden inside that small fantasy. To women, this fantasy seems magical due to its total spontaneity. Nobody planned it, sought things out, or seduced anybody. Instead, some high force or power made them come together.

Whenever a woman feels a strong attraction for a man and she hopes to have sex with him, negative thoughts will get into her brain, like: Am I being manipulated into sex? Will this make me a slut?

However, once she indulges in a fantasy of a higher power, she will feel completely relinquished of any responsibility.

"I will not be seen as a slut if I sleep with him on the night we met since a higher power already made the choice of us having sex," she ends up justifying.

So, how can you take complete advantage of this particular fantasy?

The secret would be: subtlety. Instead of being blatant, be suggestive. There is no need to give women complicated metaphysical explanations on higher powers bringing you to each other.

Here is an example.

Imagine that the two of you share something that the majority of people out there don't: you collect matchboxes and you have been doing this ever since you were little, perhaps.

Start talking about the uncanny coincidence that two matchbox collectors have met in a bar. Keep rambling about what the odds are of that happening by chance. Must be something spooky at play.

By doing this, you won't explicitly say higher powers have brought you to each other, but you will be suggesting it.

Without a doubt, this is a highly powerful way to preempt any resistance the woman might have before having sex with you. (If you're already using the Dark Rake Method, you'll recognize instantly that this is one of the ways you create subliminal rapport covertly).

However – and this is a huge however – you just can't approach any stranger and claim, "That's so weird. Who would've thought we'd meet here? We must be soul mates – finally in each other's arms." Doing this might just make her strap you down into a gurney to send you to the psych ward.

You have to have a proper approach matched with the right charm and vibe to attract her this way.

 Seduction On Steroids: Fantasy Guide

Seduction On Steroids: E-Mails

Email Seduction – How To Write Emails That Get Replies From Her, GUARANTEED

Have you ever wished for somebody to tell you how emails need to be written, so that women will actually respond?

Well, you're not alone…

If you wish to learn how to pen killer emails that virtually GUARANTEES replies, then you're in for a real treat today.

I will share an email here that a TRL subscriber named Myke sent. Myke is a little overwhelmed right now because he has been out of the dating game for so long.

MYKE'S EMAIL:

Thank you, Derek, I would appreciate any advice you would give me.

I am 25 years old and haven't had a girlfriend for seven-and-a-half months now – ever since I got out of a long-term relationship (it had lasted five long years).

Naturally, I haven't been able to date a lot of other women before or build a set of skills to regularly talk to women, for that matter. I have researched on the game, and have begun to see some success in dating, but here's the thing… I want to make it in online dating now, too.

My biggest problem is looking for things to bust female balls about while staying playful in my emails. Could you look at the email I'm sending and tell me if I'm doing anything wrong? Any advice would be awesome.

Here's the email I'm sending… it was a teasing email to a typo she made on her profile… where she had spelled 'alcohol' as alcahol:

SUBJECT: RE: YOUR BRAND NEW NICKNAME

Nicole dear,

Alcohol is spelled with two o's. Oh my! :-)

Let me tell you something, 'spelling bee'. Email me with three qualities that you
have that would get me to find out more about you. Naturally, I will do the same
for you and will even send you an extra photo if I like your response.

Myke

Derek, any feedback will really be appreciated
Thanks a lot,
Myke

MY REPLY TO MYKE:

After reading your question, Luke, I felt a deeper problem than just 'Hey Derek, what can I say when talking to women over the Internet to get them poon-tang?'

What you're trying to tell me is: 'I feel like I have to try extremely hard to get a woman online interested in me, but I don't know any smart things to say.'

In other words, I felt "faulty logic" come out of you.

This is why.

You aren't beginning from the right place, so when you do, everything else doesn't end up right, either.

You seem to think that you need to try to get a woman's attention and this is what most guys online seem to think. (I will teach you how this problem can be fixed in a bit).

Myke, here's the problem. You are OVER-SELLING yourself.

Hopefully, you already have an "Optimized Profile" set up according to my techniques inside the Online Dating Playbook™, and are aware of what most guys write to women online…

They all write the same thing.

EVERY guy today tries to impress women.

EVERY guy today sends out BORING emails.

To get women online interested in you, you need to seem totally DIFFERENT than the rest of the guys out there.

Naturally, the Online Dating Playbook™ comes with my whole email system, such as the vital factors you have to know, the huge mistakes you need to stay away from, and my very specific techniques on how to produce effective personal emails. However, I want to make one thing clear today…

WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG HERE?

Myke, I think you are doing everything wrong in your email. You are attempting to use things that may work OFFline, and are trying to put them to use online.

THIS HARDLY EVER WORKS.

This is why.

The tools that are available aren't the same (read: eye contact, body language, tone and voice).

Online, girls only see words on the screen and that is IT.

When the majority of guys try to put the entire "cocky funny" thing to use online, they appear TOO cocky without being funny enough.

This is not joke.

GUESS WHAT ELSE?

Whenever a woman reads your email – the one you wasted 10 minutes typing – it appears as the complete OPPOSITE of your actual intentions.

The end.

Oh, and remember: your email will probably be the 36th one that she opens that day. Therefore, if you cannot create intrigue AND curiosity… your email will just get deleted like a lot of the other.

SO, HOW *SHOULD* THIS EMAIL BE WRITTEN THEN?

It's easy. First, I'll delete it all and start from the beginning.

Do NOT try to impress her, yet don't be confrontational, either.

She ended up mis-spelling something on her only profile, right?

Well, you can use the same theme – just a little differently. What you have to do is alter your email's TONE so that it isn't too confrontational anymore.

And guess what…

I ALREADY GOT THE "HARDEST PART" DONE FOR YOU

You're all covered.

I have already finished an email that you can cut and paste right NOW to help you show off how challenging you actually are.

(Yes, the Online Dating Playbook™ will show you this, too :-)

You simply have to edit things a little bit and you can start right away.

This is how.

I hope you get this.

Steal anything you want.

SUBJ: YOU SHOULD KNOW...

...that your profile really appealed to me, but I'm still unsure about you. Can you
tell me more about... (mention something you liked about her profile here)

Sign your name

P.S. You should know that the first thing that got my attention was your
misspelling of (insert misspelled word here) on your profile. lol :-)

Again, this is all that I did.

Myke's email had an in-your-face tone to it that was too angry and confrontational as a whole.

When women have more than 30+ OTHER emails every day coming in from other guys all the time who are TRYING to get into her good graces by impressing her, she will not reply to you if you do the same thing.

You have to say things right, but in a CERTAIN manner. Don't hit on her right away because that is what all the other guys will do.

You have to different.

You have to be CHALLENGING.

Look at the very first sentence: "I'm still unsure about you". That happens to be the magic phrase in this email.

First, you have to learn…

DEREK RAKE'S FIRST RULE OF ONLINE SEDUCTION

This rule says that your email HAS to be opened. That's where it all begins, after all.

If she doesn't open your email, then you would have wasted 15 minutes typing it for nothing.

Here, I am using a line for the subject that will create CURIOSITY. 'You should know…'

Guess what?

There is only one way to learn what comes after that: by OPENING THE EMAIL. If she does this, your initial goal will be reached.

It works, right? Aren't you reading this yourself? :-)

As for the email's body, do you see what I did there?

I remained casual and cool and didn't hit on her with anything specific. Instead, I let her know how unsure I am about her.

(Which is how things should be since you haven't actually met yet.)

The best thing is…

I hid the misspelled bit in the ending. By then, the conversation is ending, so I turned my back and went back again.

That's why a P.S. is so great.

Plus, how I used it here was tied with the subject, so after reading the whole email, the loop that I started would have closed. By the end, the answer for my subject's comment will have been answered.

Tell me how things go for you.

Use these tips wisely :-)

Seduction On Steroids: EMail Seduction

The Rake: One Secret

This brand new issue of Seduction Mindbomb™ features a very important aspect of dating - the moment when "magic" really happens between you and a woman.

If you’re wondering when the magic really happens between you and a woman, let me tell you this… It’s not the first meeting but the second that will make a difference in your love life with a particular girl. This is when your relationship with a girl really starts.

And that's the secret that most guys don't know... and they throw everything but the kitchen sink at a girl at the first date. Bad, bad mistake...

OK, I know what you’re thinking. Why do you need a second meeting when you can nail her on the first one? I don’t have anything against one night stands. In fact, I’ve enjoyed my share of same night lays.

But believe me... all that gets old and your game will shift when you start realizing that you will come to a point where you must take a casual relationship with a quality girl to the next level. Sex is just the beginning. Therefore, you must find quality girls that fit your idea of a great girlfriend.

What I'm going to say next might surprise you...

One good advice I can give you is to avoid having sex on the first meeting. Control the urge and save intimacy for the next time you see each other. The reason for this is simple. Your frame of mind, and hers, will shift from casual to more serious. It’s your first REAL date, and you can bet she thinks of it that way too.

Another reason to not have sex on the first meeting is to avoid what we call “morning-after remorse”. Women are more prone to this than men because they feel like they’ve lost control, and the guilt that follows prevents them from talking to you again.

So, I’m actually saying you shouldn’t aim for the full close when you meet a woman? No.

Rather, I’m saying you can delay the full close for much later, when you meet again for the second time. She will feel more comfortable talking to you if she knows she still has her bag of tricks under wraps.

Sex makes a woman feel naked, and at the back of her mind she is wondering if you really like her “for her” or you just want to bang again. You want her comfortable and eager to consider you as a possible long-term boyfriend. That means more sex for you with a quality girl, and a relationship that might just last forever.

Comfort level, rapport and the willingness to get to know you more… these factors will add magic to your second meeting.

But first things first...

But first, let’s make sure the second meeting actually happens. This means cementing the base for the next meeting during your first.

Saying “let’s go out tomorrow” and expecting a total stranger to say “yes” (and meaning it) is difficult to pull off without a crucial factor… comfort level. A lot of the girls you meet don’t instantly want to meet with you, not because you suck, but because they don’t have a nagging reason to.

You gotta realize this...

Certain attraction buttons need to be pushed before you can make her actually put on her best clothes, some perfume and make up, and show up in the coffee shop where you agreed to meet. (For instance, you can push her emotional hot buttons by using The Pull System - Tactic #11 in Mr X's 15Tactics system).

So what happens when you first meet a girl?

So what happens when you first meet a girl? You ask for her number and she gives it to you. What’s next? You call her to set up a date. That’s when things get tricky, here’s why…

She might have lost the vibe of the previous night.

If you met on a Saturday evening during a party, where she might have drank a few beers and felt giddy, flirty and elated, she might not be feeling the same emotions when you call her on a Monday with work-stress setting in. The point is that you must leave a good impression to make her remember what she felt for you during that night.

Also, avoid calling her ‘babe’ or ‘honey’ during your phone call. She might have thought it was fun to be called by a nickname you’ve given her while you were at the party, but like a hangover, that notion evaporates when “real life” sets in.

So, call her by her name (make sure you get it right) and don’t get offended if she doesn’t remember you. Instead, remind her of a fragment of your conversation, particularly the part where she laughed the hardest. If you want to use the Nicknames tactic (Tactic #7 in 15Tactics) then remember to tread carefully and re-build the rapport levels first. Read on...

Deja vu...?

The thing is, you have to build rapport all over again. The good news is that if you did the first part right, i.e. you made her comfortable during your first meeting, you won’t have to struggle to get her on an emotional high again.

First of all, you already know something about her from what she told you about herself during your conversation. Secondly, she liked you enough to give you her number. Her level of attraction can be pushed higher during your phone call, and this will help avoid flake outs when you get around to asking her out.

Now that you know about this, here’s a reminder…

When you meet her the first time, make the “first date” your goal, not just getting her number. Why? If she knows you want her number so you can call her when you want to hang with her again, she will feel less uncomfortable about spilling her digits. If you just want her number and do or say nothing about a possible date, you’re doing it wrong.

You see, if you just ask for the number, she’s going to expect a phone call. If you make it clear that you want to date her, she’s going expect you to contact her for the date. You need her to look forward to the date, not just the phone call.

Do you see where I'm going here?

How To Ask For A Second Date...

How can you phrase the “date” offer? There’s a way to get her excited about the date before you even dish out your offer. You can tell her you’re visiting an art museum the next day, and you’re stoked because the place is a jump and a hop away from a restaurant that serves the best chicken in the world.

Allow a few minutes for her to ask questions about the topic to get her more curious. Then, invite her to go with you. After you’ve told her about the plan, you can go ahead and ask for her number.

Do you see how much better an offer like that sounds compared to just saying “What’s your mobile number? I’ll call you.”

Planning for your next meeting should start during your conversation. Take note of what she likes. Be alert to red flags that trigger bad memories. Most of the time, women who are enjoying the conversation unconsciously open their emotions to you, which makes it easier to formulate a good plan of action for your next meeting based on the things she’s telling you.

Make no mistake of it; a good day-two game plan is important. Even if it’s just a venue change, make sure your plan is airtight. If the girl you’re seducing doesn’t feel that you’re in control of things, or you’re keeping things open-ended because you only want to make out anyway, she’s going to leave.

Next, ask about her plans. She’s a busy girl, she has a job or she probably has a long list of things to do (even on a Sunday). Make her mentally clear her schedule for you to prevent her from coming up with an excuse not to go.

Having your own agenda is one thing, mixing it up with hers is another thing. You can reach a compromise by discussing your date plans. Do ask what time she’s free, the best time to call her, or what time you should pick her up. By doing all this, you put the ball in her court. You make her feel invested in your date. In her mind, she’s imagining the date. Besides, asking means you’re being considerate, which isn’t a bad thing at all. 

How To Tackle Flakey Girls

Do you know the primary reason why girls flake? It’s partly because you made them uncomfortable the night before, and mostly because they think you’re going to continue the “conversation” you had the previous night. If you’ve been hitting on her then asked for her number, a girl will feel that the “date” will be as weird as the conversation.

It’s pretty obvious that you need to deepen the rapport with a woman towards the end of your first meeting, and during your phone conversation. The ultimate rapport happens when you can talk about topics that interest you both for more than a few hours. Sometimes, you even talk simultaneously and still understand each other. If the conversation is great, she will not be able to say no when you ask her to meet up.

What happens when you don’t make her comfortable enough to want to go out with you? She will think that she will just be wasting time, because she really doesn’t have anything in common with you. She will feel that you’re not interesting to talk to, and that she shouldn’t bother even telling you she won’t show up.

Another crucial thing to build is trust. Use the Subliminal Selling tactic if you already know 15Tactics (it's Tactic #4 in the program). You want her to be comfortable with the thought of staying over or going to another place with you. So, during your second meeting, you can spend time building rapport and trust, and then take it from there. At this point, don’t sweat over routines and lines, just push her over the brink of being “slightly attracted” to “absolutely in love”.

The Rake: One Secret

The Rake: Heartbreak

On Saturday I had gone to visit the Zen Master in the leafy suburbs of Kuala Lumpur, where we spent an hour in his serene yard enjoying Lapsang tea and talked on our favorite topic of the psychology of seduction and influence.

"Derek, I want to share with you today a very powerful method for creating strong attraction," said the Master.
I listened intently.
"Perhaps not surprisingly, this method is also used by women on men. But before I tell you about the method, let me first tell you about something that happened to me twenty-five years ago."

I nodded.
"Back in high school I knew this guy (Leroy) who claimed that he was dating a model four years older than him. He wasn't particularly good looking, and he wasn't very rich either. So, we all had problems believing Leroy. Instead, he was mercilessly laughed at every time he mentions about his 'model girlfriend'."
"So in order to prove to everyone that he indeed was dating the model, he threw a house party and promised that his 'girlfriend' would be there.

"We had wanted to expose him of the lies that he has been telling. I wanted to prove to myself that he was just imagining things."
My curiosity was piqued. "So was she real?"
The Master paused for a second.
"Yes, she was indeed real. In fact, she was a downright stunner - a redhead with a slim, curvy figure with an angelic, pixie-like face. I was stumped."
"Leroy, however, was not really "dating" her. Whenever I mentioned his name, she would either roll her eyes or just act uninterested."
I asked, "Why is that so?"
The Master smiled. "I'll tell you later. Meanwhile, we were 'getting it on' a little. But at the back of my head, the fact that she already has a boyfriend kinda bugged me."

"Sorry, But You Are Not My Ideal Man..."

"She pulled her lips from mine, and said: I like you, but Mr X, I can never break up with Leroy for you."
"I asked her why. And she said that I was not her ideal man."
I asked, "So did you ask her what her ideal man is like?"
"Yes, she told me even before I asked. She said that I was not romantic, did not buy her gifts nor try to understand her problems.

"She said that she knew that I was totally not capable of doing those things. Not like Leroy."
The Master leaned forward. "So tell me, Derek. What would the Zen Seducer do in this kind of situation?"
I tried to chip in with my two cents worth. "He will tell her that the deal is off."
The Master smiled. "Exactly. But remember that this happened way before I started to get any good at this."

"So, instead of running as fast as I could from her, I attempted to live up to her standards and started doing all the things she asked and expected me to do."
"So did you end up winning her over in the end?" I asked.
He laughed. "Of course not!"
"So what happened then?"
"It would seem that whatever I did, she wasn't satisfied. And the funny thing is that I found myself attracted to her even more. It was crazy."
 
He shook his head. "Derek, don't do what I did. Unless you are a real sucker for pain!"
I thought for a moment. "I think most guys would have had gone through this before."
"Yes. That is why the lesson today is invaluable - and is a must-know for every man who wants to be good with women."

"What's The Lesson To Be Learned Here?"

The Master took a deep breath.

"Here's a simple fact about human psychology. Whenever you imply to another person that he or she is not living up to your standards, you create emotional tension inside his or her body. This tension remains unresolved - until he or she lives up to the standards that you set them."
I tried to build on his idea. "So what I do is to come up with my own standards and expect women to live up to them instead."
He nodded. "Exactly. It depends on what you want in a girl. Want a girlfriend? Then set your girlfriend standards. Want a short-term fling? Then do the same."
"Strangely, the higher standards you set, the better quality women you will attract."
"So let's say I've got my three standards. What do I do then?" I asked.

"Whenever you talk to women," said the Master.

"Convey that you are not willing to give up on these standards - not even an inch. Challenge them to meet your standards."
"But what if they don't?" I pondered.
The Master smiled. "Then tell her that you will walk."
"Demonstrating the ability to walk away is another highly attractive trait in a man - but we will save this for our next meeting.

The Rake: Heartbreak